Monday, April 13, 2009

MOTHERHOOD: A Blessing-Chapter 3

From always Ramanuj and I wanted a baby girl..... and many of our family members too..... and some wanted a boy..... .well we didnt keep it a secret.... as we were so excited by the news and so anxious to know what's it gonna be?...... we had this appointment where i was supposed to know the possible complications i would be having... It is called FTS or first Trimester Screening.... Well my test went perfect and doctor said no complications so far.... it was another doctor and he said that since my age is right for a woman to concieve i had none of the complications which women less than 19 or more than 35 years of age have..... remember readers.... right thing at the right time.....  there is no woman in the world who doesnt want to be a mother... so why just make it late or early..... the age range 23 to 30 has the least risks of miscarriage.... so even if u feel its soon, its not and its right..... So my test went perfect and i happily came back home and thanked Ganpati Bappa...

So.... whats it gonna be....? a boy or a girl.....?..... Ramanuj said lets not keep it a secret.... and in US its not an issue bout a boy or girl..... if the mother wants to know they tell..... and i couldnt be that patient to wait nine complete months and then know what it was..... That day when Dr. Gaffari entered the examination room she said she'll be doing the Second Trimester Screening and if i wanna know she can tell whats the sex of the baby..... she checked the brain and spinal cord of the baby through ultrasound.... then she showed us the hands and legs...... oh my God they were moving inside me..... when doctor was showing baby's hands we got a feeling that it was waving its hands...... even doctor said the same..... wow...... it was such a beautiful scene..... then doctor asked if i wanna know the sex....... i said "dont tell me tell my husband"..... she said she cannot tell anyone except the mother of the baby...... So i said ok...... she said u r gonna have a baby Girl.......... we both did a big yahooooooooo........ doctor asked wot we wanted...... and we said we both wanted a baby girl....... I thanked Ganpati Bappa.......

On our way home we were discussing all bout Anushka..... Anushka is my little girl...... Before marriage, Ramanuj used to say if we have a boy we'll keep his name whatever u feel but if we have a girl we'll keep her name Anushka...... So it was Ramanuj who wanted our little girl's name to be Anushka...... We called our parents and they all were so happy...... 

So, our little one was on her way..... now it was another 5 months...... every day was like a century...... really i wanted to see my baby sooooooooooooo much...... 

to be continued.......

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